Wednesday, October 16, 2013

Another Door Has Opened: My Next Journey

After moving to San Diego, I never became homesick. I missed my family, yes, very much so. But I settled into my new surroundings and remained excited about the adventure before me. I loved the palm trees, the perfectly blue skies, and the multitude of beaches and baysides where I could spend my afternoons.

San Diego is where I found myself. I moved here as a single twenty-something woman, ready to tackle what ever may be thrown my way. I checked so many things off my bucket list, especially the most important of all...


Finding my purpose.

But as time passed by, as the pages turned in my novel of life, my intuition became stronger and stronger. I took a trip home to the DC area in August for my dad's birthday, my niece's belated birthday celebration and because, well, I needed a break from the West Coast. While I was home, an overwhelming feeling came over me that I was unable to shake. It had a strong grip on my heart. It was the feeling of home, of belonging, of my future. And it was right there in front of me. In the brick houses that lined the cobblestone streets of Old Town, in the history of my family along those same streets, of the humid air that filled my lungs on a warm, August night. It was there and it overwhelmed my heart.

I returned home to San Diego. "Home." It was my new home, the life I had created for myself. But I started noticing all the cracks. The cracks that needed to be filled. The cracks that grew in length and depth. San Diego, like my East Coast hometown, wasn't perfect either. My life here presented many mental and emotional challenges to me that I'm sure I wouldn't have experienced had I never moved here alone. 

I always have believed that everything happens for a reason and that nothing is just a coincidence. However, it was once I really "started to do the work" (a phrase I use a lot) that synchronicities really started to show up and become apparent to me. Like novels often do, my life in San Diego started to take a few turns. Doors started to close. In yesterday's post, I mentioned  some synchronicities that started to occur and I knew I had to pay attention to them. In a matter of 24 hours, I received the closure I had been looking for in the love department, I told my landlord I was moving out and was going to move into a high-rise downtown (or so I thought at the time), and then, just a few hours later, my company conveniently told me they couldn't pay me any longer.

So, as I said yesterday, when I got home that evening, I hit my knees and said, "Alright, Universe... let's do this!" I truly had no idea what my next step should be. Twenty minutes later, my 3-week course with Gabby Bernstein on fearless living began, a class I had previously signed up for after feeling the prompt to do so. Talk about timing...

I knew not to be scared, not to panic, not to make any moves yet. Instead, I just needed to listen. This was the Universe re-organizing things in my life. I knew I had no control and to just trust the process and listen as the doors opened. I prayed every night to be led to what was right for me; where I was meant to go next.

I thought, I prayed, I read, I wrote, I continued on with Gabby's class where, during the second week, we did a meditation to expand into intuitive knowing. It was in the last minute or two of that meditation that I was completely overcome with joy and tears filled my eyes. I knew in my heart what I was supposed to do. I knew it was the path I was meant to take.

Now, let me backtrack. A few months prior, as I was spending a lot of introspective time getting to really know myself, my dreams, my passions... I finally found that one thing I bolded up above. My purpose. After all the jobs I didn't enjoy, all the career paths I almost went down, I finally realized what I was given the gifts and tools to do in this life.

For months, I kept asking myself "Why would the Universe give me this loss?" Not in a "Why me?" way but in a "What am I meant to do with this?" way. I knew and trusted that there had to be a reason I was given those trials in my life. Instead of turning outward to drugs, alcohol, food, etc. to help me out of those painful events, I turned inward. I wanted to live a happier life than I had ever lived before and thanks to an amazing counselor, the life wisdom of people like Mastin Kipp and spiritual junkies like Gabby Bernstein, I got myself into the best physical, mental, and spiritual shape I've ever been in.

My blog made some transitions that paralleled the changes in my life. I found my heart was pouring out with words and paragraphs and blog posts about life. About the trials. The lessons. The failures. The achievements. The pain. And the happiness. I put it all out there. And eventually, an email would pop up in my inbox. Followed by another and another. People reaching out for help, advice, support. They explained their stories to me and I felt the pain through their words, especially since so many of their situations sounded so similar to my own. I found myself sitting there for hours exchanging emails and it was in those hours that something ignited inside of me. One day, a few months ago, it finally hit me. All the workshops I had done, books I had read, blog posts I had written, prayers I had said... they all came together and I finally felt the light go off.

I was going to be a life coach.

So, now I can finally announce some of THE most special news I've ever had. In November, I will be starting my new journey as I earn my Life Coach certification. I already know that this is going to be the greatest year of my life as I learn, study, and start to do the one thing I feel most passionate about. In November, I am off to Florida where the first part of my program takes place. That part I have known about and planned for the past few months. However, it wasn't until the past month when all of these synchronicities started to occur that I knew where I was meant to live during this next journey. So, as my certification program continues, I will be working in... DC! :)

California has always had my heart. This was the place where I found myself and it will always be my second home. I am so sad to say goodbye to the places and the people who have played a role in helping me become who I am today. But, as I saw these synchronicities taking place and as certain doors were closing and others were opening, I knew I had accomplished what I needed to in San Diego. It was time. My purpose is calling and I have to honor it. So, this weekend, off to the East Coast I go to start yet another new life, finally, as the woman I am confident to now be!

Because of how much I love this blogging community, all the comments, emails, and tweets I have gotten that make MY day, I want to give back! So, this is where you come in! I am offering up TWO free life coaching sessions while I'll be in Florida. These sessions will be laid back, over the phone and last 45 minutes to an hour. I have one session on Saturday evening (Nov. 16th) and one on Monday night (Nov. 18th) These spots have already filled up BUT I will be accepting paid clients at the end of November!

I am so grateful for all the doors in my life. The doors of tragedy that go smashing shut and the doors of hope that open when you least expect them to. I encourage you to watch for and pay attention to the synchronicities that occur in your life. They're there for a reason. We all have our purpose here and it is truly one of the greatest feelings to know I have found mine. Finally.


Love and light to you all!

Chelsea :)

33 comments:

Sweet Love and Ginger said...

THis was a captavating post. I'm so happy for you.

Maura said...

this was an incredible post! i'm in such a similar situation of questioning everything and letting the universe reorganize my life (and interestingly enough wondering if my life is taking me back to my hometown of Georgetown) can't wait to follow you on this journey!

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Kate said...

I could not stop smiling the entire time I read this post. I'm so excited for you, Chelsea, this just sounds in so many ways like it's exactly right for you. I'm going to sit down and email you in a few minutes cause I have so many things I want to say but I'm so happy for you!!

Kristine said...

I couldn't think of a better career for you! I think I could use a life coach; especially these days.

Jenn @ A Country Girl's World said...

It really sounds like this is going to be a great thing for you! Your post are always really inspiring and I think you'd make a great life coach! :)

Jess Beer said...

So happy for you! You have such a positive outlook on everything and I'm glad it's bringing you home to DC.

Jenn @ West Sac Honey said...

Oh Chelsea this is so amazing! What a great insight you have into yourself. It's a wonderful thing! Treasure it and spread that love! I know you've made me always think about things more! I'm off to answer your email.. I've been on mobile too long so didn't want to write it all on there. So very excited for you!

Oliviaaa said...

What an amazing thing you are doing. So happy and excited for you! I can't wait to hear about what is to come.

And in DC... well I'm just gonna need to visit :D

Miss Chelsea said...

So exciting! Best of luck, you will do amazing!

Katie Did What said...

Awww Chelseaaaa!! I am SO excited and thrilled for you, my dear friend!!!! You are incredible. I'd be lying if I wasn't hoping (selfishly) for an SF move, but I know our paths will meet one day! :) In the meantime, I'll be rooting for you, soul sister, from sunny California, always!!!

xoxo

havethismomentforlife said...

Girlfriend I am so proud of you!! I know you will succeed in this career path like no-other! I always look to your blog posts for inspiration and guidance when I need it most and somehow you're always saying what I need to hear at that exact moment! To focus your talent on a specific individual will be incredible and so rewarding! Plus to have you back on the East Coast makes me smile even more!! I can't wait to follow you in this new adventure! Love you

Jess said...

Welcome back home to DC! I have been following your blog for awhile. You will be a great life coach. Maybe we'll get to meet sometime since I live in Old Town.

JBean said...

Congratulations on this breakthrough. After all the work you've done it's so amazing to see you come to this point. I think you'll be a phenomenal life coach and I may be contacting you about a session in the future. Best wishes as you transition to your new life!

afitlittleone said...

This is so exciting!!! I'm so happy for you :)

Lauren said...

Yay! That's great, Chelsea!! I seriously hope you get to know my friend Danny. A lot of his posts remind me of you. I think you're going to be an amazing life coach and I'm so happy that you will be able to help others grow as you have - and continue to blossom yourself. So proud of you!

Brianna said...

okay I have been off my reader list since last weekend BUT after seeing your instagram post I KNEW I needed to get on and go STRAIGHT to your blog to find out what was going on (: (:
OH MY GOODNESS so excited for you lady!!! Such a huge change but so glad you found yourself and found exactly what you want to do!! So amazing how it all turned out, doors closing RIGHT when others opened up. Incredible.

BUT I am SO SO sad we were never able to meet up out here! WAH. so sad. what the heck!!! haha that's okay... Harry Potter World is totally on my list so Florida it is ;)
What part of Florida?!? My mom is originally from there so it holds a special place in our hearts (:
Good luck with everything this weekend!! I'll be thinking about you lots and can't wait to hear of all the great things to come!

Cody Doll said...

Wow that is awesome. I really wish that I could do something like that, find my purpose. I am sure I will figure it out one day but for now I am going to try to finish my AA.

Ash said...

aaahhh im so excited for you!!!

if you need a guinea pig, you got my number (; because i wouldnt mind talking with you for 40 minutes, yo (:

xoxoxoxox

Natalie Joseph said...

Chelsea this is the most amazing news! I am so happy for you and I honestly belive this will be the best decision you've made.

x Nats

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Kristin said...

Best of luck to you on this next chapter!!

Jenn said...

Im just getting caught up on some blogs, but I wanted to say YAY! So glad to have you back in the area!! We should get together sometime!

Jenn said...

Im just getting caught up on some blogs, but I wanted to say YAY! So glad to have you back in the area!! We should get together sometime!

Devon said...

I'm really happy for you Chelsea. You are on a great journey and this sounds like a very happy next chapter.

jelly andrews said...

This is really inspiring. And I really think you are a great life coach. I said so because you seem to have lots of life experiences that you can use in helping others.

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Sycamore Terrace said...

Wow! You must be excited. It is going to be sad having to leave San Diego where you have started to live your life. But what they say really is true: Fate would always lead you home. Looks like you have a whole new journey right in front of you, and I wish you all the best in your endeavors.
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